After my father died,on that same year my mother got sick...so my sister and i,brought her to the doctor and the doctor said she need to have a lung x-ray to know why she had a difficulty sometimes in breathing..and after that we found out that she had a cancer too..we don,t know what to think..what's happening to our family..what we did wrong to suffer ...my mom stayed on the hospital for about two and a half months....she undergone the CT Scan and other things to lengthen her life...b'coz she always says that she is afraid to die.
While she was staying at the hospital,it was so hard to think on how do we gonna pay our bills...because our father recently died..so we don't have enough money to support my mother on her medicine and specially to pay other expenses at the hospital.My sister and i decided to take her home,like what we did to our father.and while at home..its not easy to see her suffering like my father...and on December 03,2008 she died.because of her stage four of lung cancer.That's the 2nd sad Christmas we had with my sister and my daughter..
2009 is really the hard time for us...on how to start things on our own life without our mom and dad..first my daughter,i don't know what she likes..about food, hobbies,and like to do..because i left her to my mom and dad when she was a six month-old baby to be able to work again abroad.2nd, problem that always bothering us,even now, is our relatives,specially my dad younger brother (a policeman) known for his greediness and unlawful business.Unlawful because since i grew up..i've never heard good things about him from other people..he has always brought shame to our family.. that's why ever since we grow up, both of us didn't use his name for any problem or trouble we had before, until now.He always has a case of grave misconduct (see at Filipino Star Ngayon,October 04, 2007).
He want us to leave our house and take it,he said that we don't have the right to live or stay there because he owns the place. He does lots of things to make us leave the house by throwing garbage in our door,yelling at us to leave the house and other some crazy stuff to bother us..so we decided to leave the house because its not a good environment for my daughter and Im afraid that he might do bad tings to us..specially when his son is drunk,always shouting and drinking outside our door or talking to my daughter,drunk and asking us to leave the house..but sorry for them,were not a kid anymore to treat us what they want...we went to the lawyer to ask for our legal rights about the situation .We follow what have the lawyer said..and now the house is ours and we transfer it to our names already...and we decided it to make it for rent...and still keep us bothering by threatening the family who is living in our house now...that one of these day he will lock the door that no one could enter the house..the family who is renting the house is very bothered about the situation,But we said not to worry because we already have the documents that we really own the place...and don't be scared because they have the right to take him to a court and filed a case against him.
Now were renting a house, living a one hour drive from the city(our house before) and a 5 minutes walk to my younger sister house.
Still my uncle keep on bothering us..but then it not the reason not to live life....when i thought about the things that all have happened, on how we survived all the struggles in life, i cannot believe how we overcome and surpassed all those things without knowing it and getting more stronger to fight for what I believed is right. that's the big miracle in life... and just proves that everything happens for a reason.
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